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Burial vs. Cremation by Pastor Raymond Wicks

Our views of the afterlife will influence how we handle the bodies of those who have died.  That is true, not just with Christians, but with many others of varied beliefs as well (e.g., Jews, Hindus, Muslims, Buddhists, Atheists, etc.).

Burial

The Biblical direction seems to give a strong trail of burial for the dead.

Ecc. 6:3 “If a man beget an hundred children, and live many years, so that the days of his years be many, and his soul be not filled with good, and also that he have no burial; I say, that an untimely birth is better than he.”

Gen. 15:15 “And thou shalt go to thy fathers in peace; thou shalt be buried in a good old age.”

Gen. 49:31 “There they buried Abraham and Sarah his wife; there they buried Isaac and Rebekah his wife; and there I buried Leah.”

Acts 8:2 “And devout men carried Stephen to his burial, and made great lamentation over him.”

Of course, the great example in the Bible is the record of the burial of Jesus Christ.  Matt. 27:57-59 tells of Joseph of Arimathea gaining permission from Pilate to bury our Lord’s body in a new tomb cut out of the rock.

Most of the key people in the Bible were buried.  In fact, it was considered a dishonor to the people of Israel not to receive a proper burial.

Cremation

The word “cremation” is derived from the Latin word “crematus” or “cremare” meaning “to burn up.”  During the process of cremation, human remains are placed in a wooden box, and then into a crematorium or furnace.  They are heated to temperatures between 1600-2000 °F until the remains are reduced to bone fragments and ashes.  The bone fragments are then processed in a machine until they resemble coarse sand, light gray in color.

The early Christian church rejected cremation, partly because of its association with Pagan societies. 

When people dead or alive were burned in the Bible, it usually had a bad connotation.

2 Chron. 34:4-5 “And they brake down the altars of Baalim… And he burnt the bones of the priests upon their altars, and cleansed Judah and Jerusalem.”

Deut. 12:31 “Thou shalt not do so unto the LORD thy God: for every abomination to the LORD, which he hateth, have they done unto their gods; for even their sons and their daughters they have burnt in the fire to their gods.”

2 Kings. 16:3 “But he walked in the way of the kings of Israel, yea, and made his son to pass through the fire, according to the abominations of the heathen, whom the LORD cast out from before the children of Israel.”

Eze. 24:9-10 “Therefore thus saith the Lord God; Woe to the bloody city! …and let the bones be burned.”

Practical Thoughts

  • The burial is a type of planting—symbolic as a reminder of the resurrection and future with the Lord. 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.  For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.  For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep.  For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.  Wherefore comfort one another with these words.”

 

  • Just because a body has been destroyed by fire or any other means, doesn’t mean that a person will not have a body in heaven—all saved folks will get a new body. The heavenly body is a new, spiritual body, and not the old body of flesh and blood.  1 Cor. 15:35-55

 

  • Unless the cremated remains are interred in a cemetery, there may be no permanent marker or place to honor and memorialize the life and death of the deceased for generations to come.

 

  • The main reason people are cremated today is often because it is less expensive than burial.

 

  • How you want to be laid to rest is a personal decision. I have put together these thoughts since many have asked me recently about this subject.  It is important to discuss your wishes with your family, and also know the preferences of your family members.  This will make funeral preparations a little easier for everyone involved when that difficult time comes.

4 Ways to Honor Your Mom by Pastor Raymond Wicks

This Sunday, we will give recognition to some of the most special people in our lives, our mothers.  My heart is filled with wonderful thoughts and memories of my mother; she passed away almost seven years ago.  The Bible clearly teaches us to honor our parents.  Exodus 20:12 “Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.”  As we approach Mother’s Day, here are a few practical tips to help us honor our moms.

1. Brag on her.

Your mom does something better than anyone else you know.  What is it?  For example, my mom made the best pineapple sauce for ham and pork chops!  My wife got the recipe and has now passed it on to our children.  Every time we use that recipe, memories flood back to those special meals with Mom.  Let others know about your mother’s amazing chocolate chip cookies or her sweet comforting smile or her incredibly soft hands.  Maybe she is the most faithful, hard-working person you know.  Maybe her selfless deeds for others should be recognized.  Take a few moments right now and think about ways you can brag on your mom. Give her some well-deserved accolades.

2. Listen to her.

Early on I realized that there are only a few people that genuinely love us and have our success in mind.  For many, that person is called “Mom.”  With that in mind she certainly deserves our attention when she tries to teach us, correct us, or guide us.  Don’t be too cool to listen to your mother.
In Proverbs 1:8 the Bible says “hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother.”  Proverbs 15:20 continues “a foolish man despiseth his mother.”
Listen to her.  She is trying to help you.  She probably has your best interest at stake.

3. Stay out of trouble.

Proverbs 10:1 says “a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.”  Even as a young boy, I remember wanting to please my mom.  I wanted her to be happy with my decisions and my life.  One of the reasons I hired our current youth pastor is because he had a reputation of wanting to please his mother, even as a teen.  Spare your mother from a lot of heartaches and embarrassment by simply doing right.

4. Be a success.

Give your mom a son or daughter she can be proud of.  Make her child-rearing efforts worthwhile.  My mom is now gone from this life, but she can look down from Heaven and see four successful children who owe a great amount of honor to a wonderful lady we called “Mom.”  She deserves honor.
Happy Mother’s Day Mom!

Thoughts On Suicide by Pastor Raymond Wicks

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It has become too often that we hear of someone who has decided to take their own life. No matter how close we are to them, we wish we could have done something to help them before that tragic event.People are interested in this subject for different reasons. For some, this topic is an interesting theological question. Others are thinking about how they can effectively minister to hurting hearts. For some, trying to figure out the “why” is their main focus. Others are trying to figure out how to go forward after such a heartbreaking loss.The subject of suicide should be approached with a compassionate care for all those involved. I trust these thoughts will be helpful.